The first in my family to attend college and graduate school; graduating from two Ivy League Institutions; Cornell and Columbia University, I went on to pursue several post-graduate certifications.
raised by a single-mother and growing up living below the poverty line, I became fiercely determined to do everything I could to “make it,” to honor my mother’s sacrifices and make my family proud.
I returned to the Bronx after college and served as a classroom teacher. I fell in love with my students and the art of teaching. My students inspired me and grounded me every single day.
After 13 years in the classroom, motivated to broaden my impact, I became the national Managing Director for an education non-profit. There, I set the vision and led national training for teachers and instructional coaches in the country's most under-resourced schools and districts, just like the ones I grew up in and taught in.
Proudly achieving the "American Dream"— education, family, career and finances.
I had "made it." But had I?
Despite my successes, I felt something was missing... that I was meant for more.
And, I started to realize that while I believed in the infinite potential of my students and the educators I supported,
I struggled to fully believe in my own.
I had proudly achieved the "American Dream"— education, family, career and finances.
I had "made it." But had I?
Despite my successes, I felt something was missing. A deep, persistent feeling told me I was meant for more.
But, I began to realize that while I believed in the infinite potential of my students and the educators I supported,
I struggled to fully believe in my own.
Being the first in my family to achieve so much was both beautiful and challenging. I worked tirelessly to meet the imposed standards of "success," and familial expectations, without the chance to truly freedom-dream for myself. I internalized limiting beliefs about my worth and potential, never having the opportunity to fully see and develop my unique brilliance and power—to,
as Audre Lorde wrote,
"define myself for myself."
Being the first in my family to achieve so much was both beautiful and challenging. I worked tirelessly to meet the imposed standards of "success," and familial expectations, without the chance to fully dream for myself. I internalized limiting beliefs about my worth and potential, never having the opportunity to fully see and develop my unique brilliance and power—to, as Audre Lorde wrote, "define myself for myself."
I examined how my schooling and lived experiences had shaped my identity and beliefs-- uncovering, questioning, healing and rewriting the stories I had internalized.
This was the start of my journey toward healing and liberation.
I began fully stepping into the person I was created to be versus who I had been conditioned to be.
Now, I support my clients in doing the same...
whether it be for themselves or for the children they serve...
to wake up to their limitless power and potential, to freedom-dream...
And to live it.
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-Customized Support Client
“Bárbara is a true expert in her field, but brings the humility and humanity of a lifelong learner to her work and collaboration, with listening and responsiveness at the center of her work.”
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"Bárbara is authentic, intentional, and experienced. She brings her whole self to the work and creates the conditions for others to do the same. She creates environments where all people thrive."
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"I left our sessions feeling so empowered and like my truest self. It is not often that I feel so seen and affirmed."
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